Zoe Saldana Calvin Klein and Envy: Underwear Model Plus...

Underwear models are a strange breed. Awesomely gorgeous creatures like Tyson Beckford, David Bekham, Heidi Klum and Naomi "Duck If You See Her" Campbell preen in tightie whities, bras and panties to convince us mere mortals that if we wear the same drawers we too will look airbrushed, cellulite free and utterly gorgeous.

Now the beautiful Zoe Saldana joins this elite body-luscious club as the newest sexy face and body of Calvin Klein underwear and Calvin Klein Envy... Continued.

Get the Whole Story: Zoe Saldana near naked for Calvin Klein: The Avatar beauty is newest CK underwear model (VIDEO)

Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating Episode 11 - Polyamory & Open Relationships

Episode 11 - Monogamy vs Polyamory

FIVE OUT OF FIVE STARS, ★★★★★

Episode 11 of the weekly livestreaming web series talk show Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating and Drama, the live edition of Kiss and Tell TV.  


Our episode 11 guests are Kenya K. Stevens & Rakhem Seku, Open Marriage Advocates & porn star Sinnamon Love.  PLUS Official Abiola Rockstar Bloggerati Lexi B and Pfunk. 


Is Monogamy Hot or Not?  If you can't see the video click here:

Love, Sex, Dating, Episode 11

And check out an adventure I had earlier in this year in Woodstock, NY asking Are Open Relationships A Good Idea?

How to Have Bad Girl Sex: Be A Sexy Good Girl Gone Bad

Hey Rockstars!

On last night's night's episode of Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating & Drama our topic was Is Monogamy Dead? Our in studio guests were Kenya K. Stevens and Rakhem Seku, married love gurus in an open relationship, and nurse turned porn star Sinnamon Love. Needless to say, episode 11, Monogamy Hot or Not was super spicy!

To add balance I want to share with you Lamar Tyler's pro-marriage films Happily Ever After and You Saved Me, and tips for HOT monogamy. 

 HOW TO HAVE BAD GIRL SEX

The Goddess Passionista Lifestyle is about living life to the FULLEST! If you want to be a good girl gone bad with hot monogamy - or a BAD GIRL GONE WORSE- here are my top 5 Goddess Passionista sex tips! 

Abiola's Passionista Bad Girl Sex Rule # 1 - 

• Break the routine. When it's new it's hot because of the unknown factor. A few years in, you both-- or all- know what works. 
• Change the game. If you always aim for the bed, pull your partner into the kitchen. Or the hallway, depending on where you live. If you get evicted -- don't blame me!!

Abiola's Passionista Bad Girl Sex Rule # 2 - 

• Take him to a sex shop or depending on where you live go to a sexy club- or a strip club. You don't have to partake if that's not your thing, but ask your partner who's hot? What does he enjoy? 
• Talk about the people there then go home and make love to each other. It's unrealistic that you dude or lady will NEVER be attracted to anyone else.

Abiola's Passionista Bad Girl Sex Rule # 3 - 

• Couples spend alot of time in bed stressing over the woman's orgasm. SLooooowwww down. Calm down. The journey is the destination. 
• Homework: Look at the clock. Test yourselves. You have to figure out how to amuse each other for the next 2 hours with no penetration.

Abiola's Passionista Bad Girl Sex Rule # 4 - 

• Talk dirty to me baby. Tell your partner exactly what to do, where to touch you, how it tastes, and then how it feels.

Abiola's Passionista Bad Girl Sex Rule #5 - 

• Don't worry about looking cute during sex. It's not a photo shoot, it's not a sex tape, it's sex. 
• Let loose, get sweaty, don't worry about anything but the moment.

Yeah.

Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating Episode 10 - Sexual Self Esteem

Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating & Drama!

Episode 10 - Sexual Self Esteem

FOUR 1/2 OUT OF FIVE STARS, ★★★★  

Episode 10 of the weekly livestreaming web series talk show Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating and Drama, the live edition of Kiss and Tell TV. Guests include: Allison Hobbs, author of Stealing Candy (Zane presents) and Steven James Dixon, author of Men Don't Heel, We Ho.  Episode 10 was wild and controversial as we spoke about the Chad Ochocinco interracial dating controversy plus sex and self-esteem! Live blogging in the studio we had Rockstar Bloggerati: Martin Johnson-Pratt of @iluvblackwomen, Sister Toldja, and Three Chicks on Lit.

If you can't see Abiola on shovio, episode 10 click here.

Jessica Holter, Zane & the Erotica The Punany Experience (VIDEO)

Hey Rockstars,

Boom Boom POW! 

Jessica Holter of The Punany Poets has written a SEXY new Passionista-approved book. 

About the new erotic book, ZANE presents The Punany Experience:

• Take an unhappy husband with a spoiled and suspicious horny wife, plus an androgynous soft-butch businesswoman with a knack for inflicting pain, an executive assistant with a dog collar and no shame, then add a passive-aggressive pillow princess named to the scene and you have just started a war! The Punany Experience is definitely not your average down low story.

• Meet Stormy Talbert, a sexy bisexual, and Korea Smith, an androgynous businesswoman, lovers who begin an affair with Hartford, a married man. He’s not on the down low, just a little curious after his first prostate exam, and the dominant Korea is anxious to help him find the answers he seeks. But in the trenches of the war between the sexes, she just may discover that what is between her legs is the biggest surprise of all.

About Writer / Performer Jessica Holter

Founder of The Punany Poets, Jessica Holter, Ghetto Girl Blue, is a mother, an author, a gifted orator, a talented visual artist and an activist for AIDS awareness and sexual abuse recovery. She created The Punany Poets in 1995 after the untimely death of Eric “Eazy-E” Wright of AIDS. Her theater group, The Punany Poets, has appeared on HBO's Real Sex, Black Entertainment Television, Playboy TV, London's Channel 5 and Cinemax. Holter's sexy stories on in rotation on Playboy Radio (XM) and she has self published six books.  Best-selling Author/Publisher Zane compiled her most riveting poetic works into a hardback anthology, Verbal Penetration in 2007.  

The Punany Experience is Holter’s first novel from Strebor Books. Holter continues to tour the country in live stage plays and cabaret performances. Jessica Holter actively promotes AIDS awareness and female empowerment though her growing line of public service advertisements, print media, audio/radio, video and film and novelties.  Visit her at www.punanypoets.com. 

Punany Definition from The Urban Dictionary: Well, originally the word "punany" or "punani" was used in India -- its in the Kama Sutra -- to describe the female sex organ. Indian laborers were used to build roads in Jamaica and the Caribbean during the 1930's, 40's and 50's so a lot of Indian slang made its way into the Jamaican vernacular. There are literally thousands of Jamaican dancehall records glorifying the punany....probably rivaled only by ganja songs.

To learn about the eco-friendly recycled fashion that I'm wearing in this interview check out the video interview with Mr. & Mr. Lifestyle Artists and my Photo Fashion Diary. Fab video production by Kristal Mosley for iCreateTV.

xo,

a.

How to Throw A Single & Fabulous Party like Vienna Girardi

 

Get the scoop on Vienna Girardi and her post Jake Pavelka (The Bachelor) Single and Fabulous Party.

HOW TO THROW YOUR OWN SINGLE AND FABULOUS PARTY!  

1. Don't invite any exes - or even talk about them. The party is about the future not about the past. Your ex is an ex for a reason right? As my aunt says, we don't eat our vomit.

2. The Guest List should be friends only, no frenemies, has-beens or guys you're currently dating. This is a celebration about you, you, you.

3. Do it big, like Vienna. Las Vegas, Miami, New York City, Paris. Go all out. Of course if you're on a budget do it up big in your apartment. Champagne wishes!

4. Encourage but don't expect gifts. Depending on what's going on budget-wise for the people you love they may want to gift you with little trinkets. This is not a mandate, however. Got it?

5. Have goodies for your friends who attend. You do, however, want to give gifts to your friends. I'm not saying be all Oprah "you get a car" about it. Some of the cutest things are the cheapest and giving will remind you that you are divine not desperate.

6. Have a good cry before or after the Single and Fabulous party. Tears are cleansing BUT don't make it a pity party. Pity Parties have different rules!

Read more about Vienna Girardi of The Bachelor throwing a free to be single party in Las Vegas...

Rachel Uchitel, fired by Donald Trump & Apprentice, Heads to Rehab

Only because you were just wondering to yourself, 'Gee, I wonder what that VIP hostess who got a fat paycheck out of Tiger Woods is up to' do I bring you this news. Apparently Rachel Uchitel is high demand, but not from Tiger Woods. 

Last week she was grandly courted by Donald Trump and announced as the latest star of the upcoming season of Celebrity Apprentice. Well that didn't take long to crash and burn. One week, actually.

Now that Rachel Uchitel has announced that she will be checking into VH1 Celebrity Rehab, Donald Trump wants nothing to do with her. Continued.

Click for the full story: Rachel Uchitel, Tiger Woods' main mistress heads to VH1 Celebrity Rehab, fired by Donald Trump & Apprentice (VIDEO)

Vagina Dialogues: How Would Your Vagina Speak If She Could?

Hey Rockstars,

I love the people in my life. 

I know official goddesses like writer and activist Megan Carpentier who recently asked women in a New York Press article, if your vagina could speak, how would she sound and what would she say.

HERE'S MY ANSWER:

• My vagina would have the sing-songy British West Indian accent that you might hear hawking mangoes and coconut milk in a blazing hot market, yes, South of the Border. 
• She would extol the virtues of her tasty wares in melodious tones that are even danceable at times. 
• The song would vary depending on the situation so I can't reveal exact lyrics but I can guarantee that her tunes are richer than any of the Bravo housewife singles!

And you?

xo,

a.

Read The Vagina Dialogues by Megan Carpentier in the NY Press...

Fashion Diary & Art Quickie: Haute Couture Interview (VIDEO)

Check out my Kiss and Tell TV interview with Christopher Trujillo at the Renaissance Fine Art Gallery in Harlem, NY. We talk green fashion, eco-friendly, wearable art, and fashion design by Michael Jerome, the other half of Mr. and Mr. lifestyle artists.

 

Check out my wearable art fashion haute couture photo diary.

FASHION STORY CREDITS: Abiola Abrams on-camera; Production by Kristal Mosley for iCreateTV, Mr.& Mr. Christopher Trujillo - Installation Artist/Painter, Michael Jerome - Fashion Designer/Stylist - also worked as the stylist of the fashion looks featured at RFA, Mr. & Mr. - Accessory Design -collaborated on all accessories including jewelry, brooches and handbags. For prices contact: christophertrujilloart@yahoo.com or michaeljeromefrancis@gmail.com.

Caviar of VH1's For the Love of Ray J is porn star Bethany Benz (VIDEO)

Looking for love on reality shows is big business. Singer Ray J Norwood was able to pimp two seasons of income from VH1 by "looking for love" and now stars in Family Business, a reality series co-starring his sister Brandy.

Elizabeth "Caviar" Ahmed brought a great deal of amusement to For the Love of Ray J when she was eliminated from season 1 of the dating show for allegedly dating a sketchy character called Chicago Larry. Caviar is going by a new name these days-- Bethany Benz, the latest star of a porn company called The Bang Bros Network. Previously she was known as a bikini model and music video dancer.

I thought that the current celebrity porn movement was to have a supposed disgruntled ex leak a sex tape a la Danielle Staub and Kendra Wilkinson or Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian before them. Then you hold a press conference, pretend to be aghast and then crawl away with a handful of cash and some semblance of pretend dignity.

One would think a gorgeous young woman fluent in Russian and English could find a job at the United Nations. I guess that maybe that doesn't offer the same resume shine in some circles as the Bang Bros Network.

Bethany Benz AKA Caviar AKA Elizabeth Ahmed is the daughter of a Nigerian father and a Russian mother. Girl, we wish you the best and extend an offer for a clothes-on interview at any time.

If you are a porn star or sex worker looking for training or education options contact Sex Work Awareness.

More about Bethany Benz aka Caviar from For the Love of Ray J...