The History of Sex: Top 10 Sex-Related Moments in History (HUMOR)
Passionista Principle: All you need is LOVE… and a fab pair of shoes… or two!
Hey Rockstars,
On the premiere episode of “Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating and Drama!” my girl Patranila shared the top 10 Moments in Sex History as imagined by her American Candy partner Hollie Harper – in addition to sharing in the fun and madness of a Hello Kitty vibrator.
Hilarious! Video below…
Napoleon
The Body Language Of Attraction: Reading the Body Language of Love (Guest Blogger)
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| Body Language of Attraction: What is she thinking? What is he thinking? |
Passionista Principle:
Elizabeth Taylor Recipe: Chicken Steamed In Wine {Bombshell Cooking}
Passionista Principle: “BIG girls need BIG diamonds.” ~Elizabeth Taylor
It is with love and reverence that I pass on a favorite recipe of movie star Dame Elizabeth Taylor upon news of her passing. I didn’t realize that I’ve only seen one Elizabeth Taylor movie, “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf.” I think I was so annoyed at her “Cleopatra
” that I never looked deeper into her legendary career. Sometime soon thanks to Netflix I plan to have a mini Elizabeth Taylor Film Festival in my living room.
As you know from my Orange Vodka Barbecue Chicken recipe, I love cooking with alcohol. I found this Elizabeth Taylor recipe that already has the wine built in so I don’t even need to consult Gary Vaynerchuk this time.
Elizabeth Taylor’s Chicken Steamed In Wine recipe comes from food.com posted by Lennie of the blog Eat, Write, Create. Thanks Lennie!
Elizabeth Taylor’s Chicken Steamed In Wine
- 3 lbs broiler-fryer chickens, cut into pieces
- 4 tablespoons olive oil
- 1 small onion, sliced
- 1 clove garlic, minced
- 2 bay leaves
- 2 tablespoons fresh parsley, minced
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- 2 dashes black pepper
- 1 cup dry sauterne wine
Legendary~ and perfect for your next Sinner’s Dinner.
All love to Passionista Elizabeth Taylor.
Safe passage. xoxo
Patting your tummy?
Check out: Marilyn Monroe’s Stuffing Recipe, Josephine Baker’s Spaghetti Recipe, Diana Ross’ Favorite Cookies, Mixed Green Salads, What Wine Goes With BBQ Chicken? and Barbecue Orange Vodka Chicken.
Hello Kitty Vibrator Contest Giveaway: Win A Hello Kitty Pocket Rocket Personal Massager!!
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| Win a free Hello Kitty Vibrator from Eden’s Fantasy. |
Passionista Principle: “It is better to be absolutely RIDICULOUS than absolutely BORING!” ~Marilyn Monroe
I know, you’re still getting used to the fact that there IS a Hello Kitty Vibrator. ME TOO! See me talking about it on this show episode.
Required to win a Hello Kitty Pocket Rocket Vibrator from EdenFantasys.com.
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Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating & Drama, NEW SEASON Premiere Episode! (VIDEO)
| American Idol Finalist Anwar Robinson and Abiola Abrams on set of The LSD Show in NYC. |
Passionista Principle: If it ain’t fun don’t do it!
HOT off the video presses>>
Here is the premiere episode of the BRAND NEW season of my award-winning web series with comedian and official wingman Paul Case, special guests Anwar Robinson of American Idol and Patranila Jefferson of American Candy. We talk love, relationships, sexiness and scandal.
PLUS, the incredible Anwar Robinson
gifts us with a serenade. His voice is pure gold and he regaled us with a song from his new album, “Everything
.”
- Drunken Comedians,
- One Wife, Two Men,
- Busta Rhymes Gets the Abiola Interview,
- Ryan Leslie Gets the Abiola Interview,
- Open Relationships,
- Meet the Kids and
- Does Size Matter?
TAKE 2!! Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating & Drama Season 2: Official Update & Mea Cupla
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| Abiola Abrams (me!) on the web series talk show set in New York City! |
Passionista Principle: There are growing pains and growing pleasures!
| Abiola Abrams, Anwar Robinson, Kristal the Texas Dread |
We enjoyed our teaser episode interview with R&B singer Josh Xantus but like you we terribly missed the one hour show of madness and mayhem so we went about figuring out how to make that happen.
- NEW ONE HOUR EPISODES sneak peek every other THURSDAY at 5pm on AbiolaTV.com then…
- WATCH us on Thursday nights from 10-11pm for live episode chat on UStream. The show will be pretaped but we will be LIVE!
- This season The LSD Show will run for 8 episodes with 2 specials.
- Of course you can still watch On-demand whenever you choose on YouTube, iTunes and right here on The Passionista Playbook.
- Fun, co-ed, biweekly bachelorette party on steroids and you are invited!
P.S. Check out the new set in action…
| This is what the empty, naked set of the new Passionista Penthouse set looks like. |
| Comedian Paul Case will be my Official Wingman for the first half of the season. |
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| Taking the new set – and my new LOVE ring – for a test drive. |
| Episode Posse: Paul Case, Patranila Jefferson, Abiola Abrams, Anwar Robinson. |
Hope you enjoy it.
- Drunken Comedian, One Wife, Two Men, Busta Rhymes, Ryan Leslie, Open Relationships, Meet the Kids and Does Size Matter?
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Dondria Nicole vs Phatfffat Gets the Abiola Interview (VIDEO DIARY with SCARY Hair! :-)
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| Photo: Wikipedia, Dondria at the Hard Rock Cafe in Chicago, 2010. |
Passionista Principle: If you’re lucky enough to find a way of life that you love, you then have to find the courage to live it!
Miss Dondria Nicole was discovered on YouTube by Jermaine Dupri, and she’s now signed to Dupri’s Soso Def records. Dondria is actually a great example of the “when success calls you need to answer” paradigm as she first didn’t believe that it was Jermaine Dupri really trying to contact her.
Jermaine Dupri left Dondria numerous messages expressing interest in signing her from YouTube. Finally she answered the call and the rest is history. I found Dondria to be sweet, talented, humble, fun, family oriented and enjoying the musical ride to success.
So this is NOT a full Dondria Nicole Fields and Abiola interview video. Instead I wanted to share with you excerpts and a photo and video diary of me and my hair hanging with Dondria!! **Bad hair day** and all– it happens. We’re still GORGEOUS, right?
Dondria’s musical escapades and interludes include the album “Dondria Nicole vs Phatfffat,” and the singles “Can’t Stop
,” “New Jack City
” with Bow Wow, “You’re the One
, Just Like You
” with Keyshia Cole and more.
You know we love bringing you the new artists! Don’t forget to check out my Kimora Lee Simmons Interview PLUS full interview with Stevie Wonder’s new favorite R&B singer Josh Xantus.
Are you a Dondria fan?
New Graphic Art for My Blog & Web Series: Loving It! Meet the Artist (PHOTO DIARY)
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| Abiola Art by Gisele Parson. |
Passionista Principle: “I don’t say everything, but I paint everything.” ~Pablo Picasso
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| Abiola Art by Gisele Parson. |
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| Abiola Art (in my trademark pose) by Gisele Parson. |
Abiola: So Gisele, are there special challenges that you face being a woman entrepreneur?
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| Abiola Artwork by Gisele Parsons. |
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| Abiola Art by Gisele Parson; Echoes my photo below. |
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| Abiola (me!) by Joseph W. Carey. |
Abiola: And what kinds of clients and projects are you accepting right now?
Gisele: I am accepting all clients, from funky to corporate.
Abiola: Great! So if there is an aspiring graphic artist or video editor out there, how did you get started?
Gisele: In graduate school I took one editing course and became hooked on storytelling through graphics and video. Then I helped my mentor teach a course in digital design which was fantastic.
Abiola: And the rest was history as they say. Do you have any words of inspiration for others who want to do what you do with motion graphics, video editing and as a graphic artist?
Gisele: I offer the same words I say to myself: Try to always see inspiration from everywhere-music, the way people move, films. Even a very short film can be a great cinematic experience.
Abiola: That’s great advice! Thanks, Gisele. For those who want to hire Gisele Parson for a project contact her via GiseleParson.com.
- Help! My Man Was in Prison, MTV Ladies Man Episode, My Boyfriend Lives At Home, Positive Affirmations, Safe Sex Pledge, My Mother’s Curry Channa Recipe, How to Make Glitter Shoes and Iyanla & Oprah.
- Drunken Comedian, One Wife, Two Men, Busta Rhymes, Ryan Leslie, Open Relationships, Meet the Kids and Does Size Matter?
Married THREE Times!? Can I TRUST A Serial Monogamist? Dating Advice (VIDEO)
Passionista Principle: “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” ~Mignon McLaughlin
Every other week Tina Tobin the Advice Maven from Luv Em Or Leave Em sends over a relationship advice question.
This week’s love advice question:
- “Dear Abiola; My boyfriend, who I love, has been married three times. He treats me very well but I am nervous about dating him and possibly getting married to a him in the future. Should I be?”
SHOULD you be nervous? Your man was married thrice and now he wants to marry you?! Girl, I will definitely file this under Kelsey Grammer, who recently divorced his Real Housewives of Beverly Hills wife Camille Grammer for his fourth wife. Yikes!
Someone who has been married three times is most likely a serial monogamist.
What is a serial monogamist?
A serial monogamist is someone who goes from relationship to relationship with almost no break in between because they have fears and issues with being alone. Your man may also have Relationship ADD. Either way, this is definitely not someone you can trust in a relationship without some serious cognitive behavioral therapy. I’m just saying.
I would be extremely wary of dating a man or woman who had been married so many multiple times if I were you. Of course things happen. Trust mama! I am one husband in the hole so I am aware of that. But married three times and seeking to get married again? Something is awry.
Personally I would RUN and never look back.
BUT if he treats you well and all seems to be a loving boyfriend while you are dating then I wouldn’t tell you to break up with your man. I would advise instead that you do not consider marrying this dude at all. You should live with your boyfriend for at least five years to make sure that he is serious. Watch the video, and if you can’t see it then click here to watch: “Dating Advice: Married Three Times.”
What do you think?
Bessie Stringfield: Motorcycle Queen, Harley Davidson Mama & Passionista You Should Know
Paige Flori, a twitter and facebook buddy, sent me the sweetest tweet: “@abiolatv: Bessie Stringfield’s spirit reminds me of you! Inspirational, forward and gutsy.”
I had never heard about Bessie Stringfield before, but when I researched this Motorcycle Queen I realized that this was the best tweet ever and an incredible compliment. According to Paige’s Twitter bio she is a “Marketing strategist and master of on-location brand experiences. Filmmaker, connector, passionate idea girl and baseball enthusiast” so I really appreciate her virtual hug. Thank you, Paige.
So, who was Bessie Stringfield?
Bessie Stringfield was a bad ass bitch. There is no other way to say it. I claim all historical bad ass women and make them my ancestral goddess foremothers. Courageous and outrageous women like Cleopatra, Zora Neale Hurston, Josephine Baker, Marilyn Monroe and Diana Ross.
Bessie Stringfield was born in Jamaica, West Indies in 1911. See that? She was my Caribbean sistren. Her family then moved to the States but then her parents died when she was only 5 years old. She was adopted by an Irish mother, who gifted Bessie with a 1928 Indian Motorcycle when she was only 16. Madame Bessie took to the motorcycle like a fish to water and a legend was born. Motorcycle folks in the know say to have learned to ride on an Indian is quite extraordinary.
Bessie Stringfield, also known as the “Motorcycle Queen of Miami,” is credited with breaking down motorcycle barriers for both women and African Americans. And just to set the record straight she was not riding a pink B.S. Barbie big wheel or a toy bike for girls. Bessie, BB to her friends, was riding a serious Harley Davidson hog. Twenty five Harley Davidson motorcycles in fact, over the course of her adventurous life.
According to Wikipedia, “Bessie Stringfield was the first African-American woman to complete a solo cross-country ride and during the 1930s and 1940s she traveled through all of the lower 48 states and rode abroad in Europe, Brazil, and Haiti.” Bessie Stringfield made her first of many cross country motorcycle trip in 1930 at the age of 19. Work it, Lady Bessie!
In 2002 Bessie Stringfield was inducted posthumously into the AMA Motorcycle Hall of Fame. She died in 1993 at age 82 from an enlarged heart. Just sharing her touching story has my heart charged. Bessie Stringfield was a real live Super Woman. Wow. I don’t mind being compared to her at all. In fact, I think that I need to step my game up to live up to the legacy of this historical foremother.
Motorcycle riding in our culture is not just about
transportation or a symbol of rebellion. After all what would iconic Hollywood outlaw figures like James Dean
or Marlon Brando
be without their motorcycles. Motorcycles are a symbol of freedom.
Can you imagine being a being a foreign-born black woman in America riding a motorcycle through Jim Crow, the Feminist Movement and the Civil Rights Movement?
Bad ass, Bessie. Bad ass. Power on 2 wheels or 2 legs!
- My Boyfriend Was in Prison, MTV Ladies Man Episode, My Boyfriend Lives At Home, Kimora’s Love Advice, Affirmation Cards, The Safe Sex Pledge, Inspirational Music for Women and Iyanla & Oprah: Lessons.
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