How to Keep Your Sex Life Sizzling During a Long Distance Relationship: 7 Tips (VIDEO)
Passionista Principle: “From the moment I was born I felt sexy. And let me tell you it was hell, sheer hell, waiting to do something about it.” ~Bette Davis
A long distance relationship can be tough especially if you have been living in the same 
Here are 7 love-sexy tips to spice up your long distance love life & keep that bond between you and your partner hot :Long Distance Love Tip #1. Next time you Skype your cutie pie, why not turn the lights down low and light some small candles around your desk? Creating that romantic atmosphere will make a huge difference and remind them what they have to look forward to when you next see each other. Add sexy music for the win.
Long Distance Love Tip #2. Buy a book or magazine that focuses on the best sex positions, mark all the ones you want to try and snail mail it to your partner!
Long Distance Love Tip #3. Create a private Facebook or tumblr page each that only the two of you can see. Update it regularly and share all your thoughts, pictures and news digitally.Long Distance Love Tip #4. Phone sex. Always a winner – but this time get straight into it when your partner is not expecting it. Boom boom pow.
Long Distance Love Tip #5. Visit your favorite vibrator store and take a photo of some products you’d like to get; let your partner choose one and use that sexy rampant rabbit next time you’re together.
Long Distance Love Tip #6. Keep things romantic and mail your partner any sweet postcards, notes or small gifts you come across that remind you of them.
Long Distance Love Tip #7. Create an album or calendar of all your hot photographs (for their eyes only!) and mail it – obviously secure mail would be the best option. The more photos you send the higher the chance of you getting those large vibrators you want. And don’t mail anything you wouldn’t expect to see on TMZ if things go awry. I’m just sayin.’
Here’s hoping that your relationship is not long distance for much longer.
This AbiolaTV love advice blog post was sponsored by my good friends at Simply Pleasure.
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