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Kissing Lessons & Tongue: Oral Poetry with Kinky Courtesan Tracy Renee Jones!

Kissing Lessons & Tongue: Oral Poetry with Kinky Courtesan Tracy Renee Jones!

Dear Men, Pay attention! Are you kissing the woman in your bed?

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posted by Abiola, 21st February 2012 , Categories: art, Lifestyle, Relationships, Self-Love, Sex, single women Tags: Kinky Courtesan, kissing tips, love, oral sex, poem, poetry, tracy renee jones

“In Our Heads” Black Hair Documentary: Filmmaker Talks Misconceptions (EXCLUSIVE)

“In Our Heads” Black Hair Documentary: Filmmaker Talks Misconceptions (EXCLUSIVE)

“In Our Heads About Our Head:” I’m featured in a new film about black women and hair! (Video below.)

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posted by Abiola, 20th February 2012 , Categories: Advice, Guest Contributor, Hot Topics, Interviews, Lifestyle, Projects, Self-Love, Video Tags: african american, afrocentric beauty, Anu Prestonia, beauty, black film, black hair, black men, black women, Hemamset Angaza, in hair heads, Khamit Kinks, Maitefa Angaza, nappy hair

How To Spread More Love: Big, Fat, Thick, Juicy, Helping Human Love! (GUEST POST)

How To Spread More Love: Big, Fat, Thick, Juicy, Helping Human Love! (GUEST POST)

Passionista Principle: “We cannot do great things on this Earth, only small things with great love.” ~Mother Teresa

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posted by Abiola, 19th February 2012 , Categories: Guest Contributor, Hot Topics, Lifestyle, Self-Love, The Goddess Year Tags: hate, love

Aging Ungracefully & Awkwardly (DIARY)

Aging Ungracefully & Awkwardly (DIARY)

You were born with it! It’s not just Maybelline…

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posted by Abiola, 19th February 2012 , Categories: Relationships Tags: aging, diary

Sexy Smile Contest Alert! PLUS The Amazing Power of a Smile While Flirting

Sexy Smile Contest Alert! PLUS The Amazing Power of a Smile While Flirting

How to Win a Sexy Smile, Photo Shoot & NYC Trip

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posted by Abiola, 16th February 2012 , Categories: Relationships, Self-Love Tags: Body Language, contest, flirting, Sharon Jakubecy, smile

“Ethical Slut” & “Girlfag” Janet W. Hardy On Her Sexual Attraction to Gay Men (EXCLUSIVE)

“Ethical Slut” & “Girlfag” Janet W. Hardy On Her Sexual Attraction to Gay Men (EXCLUSIVE)

In Depth Interview with Ethical Slut Author Janet Hardy PLUS Miss Maggie Mayhem & Zille Defeu Video

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posted by Abiola, 16th February 2012 , Categories: Advice, Hot Topics, Interviews, Relationships, Sex, single women Tags: books, Dossie Easton, Ethical Slut, fag hag, gay, gay news, Girlfag, guy dyke, homosexuality, Janet Hardy, new book, slut, slut shaming

Sexy Valentine’s Day Advice! Sex Tips from Urban Erotika & Gwyneth Paltrow

Sexy Valentine’s Day Advice! Sex Tips from Urban Erotika & Gwyneth Paltrow

Is Valentine’s Day sex on your horizon? Keep reading… 

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posted by Abiola, 12th February 2012 , Categories: Advice, Relationships, Sex, single women Tags: Gwyneth Paltrow, kama sutra, Mo Beasley, sex advice, sex tips, tips, valentine's day

Soho House Soiree Photo Diary: NYFW Dinner With Glam Media in The Library!

Soho House Soiree Photo Diary: NYFW Dinner With Glam Media in The Library!

Dinner With Glam kicked off New York Fashion Week at The Soho House…

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posted by Abiola, 12th February 2012 , Categories: Events, Food, Lifestyle, Where To Go, Wine & Cocktails Tags: American Express, beauty, bloggers, Deborah Curtis, Dinner With Glam, duck confit, fashion, Glam Media, nola weinstein, nyfw, Soho House, walter frye

Sexy & Unique Gift Guide for Her! Good Vibrations for Valentine’s Day Every Day

Sexy & Unique Gift Guide for Her! Good Vibrations for Valentine’s Day Every Day

Gift Ideas for Bachelorette Gifts, Divorce Gifts and more…

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posted by Abiola, 12th February 2012 , Categories: Advice, Hot Topics, Lifestyle, Sex, single women, The Goddess Year, Where To Go Tags: a list, carol queen, divorce gifts, favorite things, female ejaculation, Gift Guides, gift idea, good vibrations, latex, pamela madsen, reviews, ribbon handcuffs, sex toy case, sex toys, Shameless, valentine's day

Love & Happiness: How to Reboot Your Relationship by Amy Spencer

Love & Happiness: How to Reboot Your Relationship by Amy Spencer

Exciting New Book on How to Be Happy in Your Relationship and Love Life (Guest Post)

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posted by Abiola, 7th February 2012 , Categories: Advice, Affirmations, Guest Contributor, Hot Topics, Lifestyle, Marriage, Relationships, Self-Love, Video Tags: Amy Spencer, author, books, Bright Side Up, dating, half orange, happiness, How to be happy, inspiration, love, new book, positive energy, positivity
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