‘Single in Stilettos’ Sexy Event for Single Women: Join Me, NYC!

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October 7, 2011 • Advice, Events, Love Column, Marriage, Projects, Relationships, Self-Love, single women, The Goddess Year, Where To Go • Views: 175

Single in Stilettos in NYC: A Day of Fabulosity, Fun & Knowledge

Passionista Principle: How we do anything is how we do everything…

Hey Rockstars,

You are cordially invited to join me in NYC next Saturday for Single in Stilettos

Single in Stilettos is the premier event for single women looking for love, sex, dating and relationship advice and tips. The event is organized by my fab matchmaker friend Suzanne Oshima, as seen on shows like Bravo’s “Pregnant in Heels.”

As your local Lifestyle Expert and Love Columnist, I highly recommend that you get your cute behind to this event. Find Single in Stilettos on October 15th from 10am to 8pm.  There will be FREE Cocktails, Godiva Chocolate, Sugar Flower Mini Cupcakes and more. My talk is right after lunch from 1:30 to 2pm.

About My Single in Stilettos Workshop

My class/talk is named “Bombshell 101: How to Seduce Your Life, Get Out of Your Own Way & Become Scandalously Irresistible!” 

As a love columnist and lifestyle expert, the biggest questions that I receive from single women are ‘how to get a man’ and then ‘how to keep a man.’ As for my own love resume, I have been in a relationship for 10 years, I’ve been married and I’ve been celibate. Although my husband cheated on me I found that all of my love woes in a relationship and as a single woman resulted from not feeling empowered. 

As a suddenly single woman in my 30s I discovered the secret key to becoming my own bombshell and creating the life of my dreams. Instead of asking why all men are dogs, you need to figure out why al of the dogs are sniffing around your garbage. This talk will give you concrete tools on how to become irresistible to any man you want!


When my BET short films talk show was cancelled in late 2008, I put my national advice column in Rolling Out on hold and accepted an invitation to participate in a VH1 love advice reality show. For me it was an interesting social experiment. I found the whole thing fun and funny, and truth be told had my boyfriend Mr. Wrong still waiting for me at home when I returned from “Tough Love Boot Camp.” I had also already directed award-winning erotic art film “Afrodite Superstar” and started my love studies. 

What I found most surprising when the show aired was how real this “reality show” was to viewers and with all of the letters from women reaching out for advice I realized how hungry we are for information about relationships. I hope that appearing on MTV’s “Made” as a Teen Dating Empowerment Coach since then helped young girls to know that boys and men are usually just as confused as we are. I love exploring these issues every week on my award-winning web TV series, “Abiola’s Kiss and Tell TV.”

My Bombshell Gift Bag Raffle Prize

I am donating a Bombshell Gift Bag that will b
e auctioned off at Single in Stilettos. 

The XO, Abiola Bombshell Deluxe Gift Bag Swag” which includes a Jackie Collins “Goddess of Vengeance” Audiobook, the Simon & Schuster novel “Dare” by author Abiola Abrams, a 30-minute “Be Your Own Bombshell” Phone Consultation with the Lifestyle Passionista herself, Consideration as a guest on the hit lifestyle web TV talk show “Abiola’s Kiss & Tell TV,” a Discrete Vibrator, Flirty Girl Fitness Workout DVD, a Bonus Seductress Sex Toy PLUS a free copy of my upcoming book “The Official Bombshell Handbook” which will be released on Valentine’s Day 2012.

Upon request I’ll also throw in “Afrodite Superstar,” the award winning erotica film that I created for women to share with their partners.

Single in Stilettos Q&A;

1) Why do you feel it is important for you to be a part of this event?

ABIOLA: As a love columnist, TV personality and lifestyle expert, I am invited to participate in all kinds of events so I am very particular about how I spend my time. I am thrilled to be a part of Single in Stilettos because it promises to be the premier event for single women looking to empower themselves. Attendees will be given a range of tools to step up their dating game and take their relationships to another level.

2) What current trends have you noted that have drawn you to doing this?

ABIOLA: Women are tired of relationship experts who talk the talk but don’t walk the walk. Readers of my lifestyle blog know that I am transparent in my personal missteps and that I have been married and in a relationship for 10 years. The biggest trend that I’ve noticed is women giving up and saying that they can’t have their ideal love lives. I completely disagree. I am here to say you can live the life of your dreams.

A few years ago, I had my own TV show and a national advice column, and was invited to go on a love advice reality show. I chose to go on as a social experiment. The biggest thing that I took away from the experience was how hungry the single women who contacted me were for dating information. They didn’t care whether the show was real or not, whether the host had ever been in a successful relationship or not. They needed guidance. I realized that there was a void in the quest for love — personal empowerment.

3) Anything else re: single women and this event?

ABIOLA: If you are a single woman you need to be at Single in Stilettos. We’re ready and excited to share secrets in love, sex, dating and empowerment. I can’t wait to share all of my personal tips with women on how to be your own bombshell.

Additional Single in Stilettos talks include Finding Love in 90 Days, Man Mind Control and Flirting 101. Additional speakers include our uber-amazing good friends Nando Rodriguez and Shoshi in addition to Dr. Diana Kirschner, the eFlirt Expert, Debbi Berndt, Thomas Edwards, Jr. and more!

See you there!

P.S. Don’t forget to check out my sexy “Kiss & Tell TV” interviews with author Jackie Collins, Playboy’s Bridget Marquardt and Kissing Between the Lines’ Diane Farr.  Plus How to Make A Mojito Salad at Native Restaurant!  

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4 Responses to ‘Single in Stilettos’ Sexy Event for Single Women: Join Me, NYC!

  1. dee dee says:

    i will be there…

  2. We can't wait to have you speak at Single in Stilettos, because you're the ultimate Bombshell Diva!



  3. Pauline says:

    Thanks for the 411, Abiola!

  4. Pippa Hater says:

    Checking It Out NOW