Relationships

Relationship advice -- plus love interventions from Abiola Abrams, Essence.com advice columnist.

7+ Ways to Warm Up Your Heart Chakra with Romance This Season! (+Gift Guide)...

How to have a romantic season? Come through, Cupid! Find the full scoop on my ESSENCE advice column here.  “Your Guide To The Most Romantic Winter Ever” Tis the season that can be super stressful. Let’s do...

How to Avoid Holiday Fights & Misunderstandings: Must-Read Cheat Sheet for Couples

For some of us the jolly sound of a fat man singing "ho, ho, ho" is sacred. For others, it's a nuisance. Here's how to make sure you're still together after the holidays... Ah,...

The Sacral Chakra Divine Feminine Body Love ‘Adult Talk’ You Never Had! (Video)

If your beautiful and amazing rockstar mom is like mine, she loved you but never gave the the coming of age adult chat (the sex talk) in the positive, healing and healthy way you...

Spiritpreneur School 23! Minister & Entrepreneur Kia Granberry-Moore on Marketing, Authenticity & Finding Your...

Let's talk about finding your voice... Hey Sacred Bombshell, Spiritpreneur School time, join me for a powerful, spiritual, inspirational, and motivational conversation with minister and entrepreneur Kia Granberry-Moore of LiveLoveKia.com. Over a year or so ago,...

Sacred Dating Secrets from the Author of #CompletelySingle, Damien K. H. Nash

Every once in a while, we let a man take the wheel and guest post on the Sacred Bombshell self-love blog. Sacred Biblical Dating Secrets... Guest Post: #CompletelySingle Author Damien K. H. Nash's Advice on...
Find Your Soulmate Online in Six Simple Steps by Dr. Diana Kirschner

Love School for Nerds Podcast – Ep41: Lost Beyond Love (Audio)

This week on Love School for Nerds, Jay and Abiola discuss a letter from a woman who has met someone at her job and cheated with him while being married. She is lost in...

Advice Columnist Chat! A Convo about Love and Self-Esteem on ‘Essence Live’ (Video)

I'm an advice columnist for Essence.com. My "Dear Abiola" column dissects your relationship dilemmas every Tuesday. Last week I made a live appearance on the fun, new, high-energy talk show, "Essence Live." I answered...

British Actor & Author Michael Obiora on Having the Courage to Live and Love...

It takes courage to be an actor and create the life of your dreams. It takes even more courage to branch out as an author. Add the biggest dose of courage of all to...

Love School for Nerds Podcast: Episode 40! ‘Dear Abiola & Jay, Will My Heart...

This week on Love School for Nerds, we discuss a letter from a woman who has been cheated on by her husband. She wants to make it work but the mother of the child that...

Love School for Nerds Podcast, Episode 39! ‘Dear Abiola & Jay, I Want to...

This week on Love School for Nerds, we answer a letter from a man who is trying to spice things up in the bedroom with his wife of 17 years. He is frustrated with initiating and...

Pink Wisdom! What You Need to Know About Your Relationships and Self-Worth

Alison Chase is creator of the site WakeUpToBreakUp.com. She is also the author of "Dear John..., which she co-authored with John Leuba. She interviewed me for her exciting new venture Pink Wisdom about your relationships...

Should You Settle? What Settle-Free Means – And What Settling Doesn’t Mean (Video)

Should you settle? The Settle-Free Dating Method for Single Women... A short video to celebrate Tinzley Bradford's new book! Let's talk about what settling means when it comes to love and life. (Photo of the...

Settle-Free Dating Advice for Single Women from Tinzley Bradford! On Mommy Noire

This week on my Mommy Noire column, I spoke with Tinzley Bradford about single mothers and relationships. Head over there to see what she had to say on the controversial topic on this link. Keep reading...

Abiola’s Dating Zen! Mindfulness and the Tao of Love (Video)

Self-being, mindfulness, nowness, or living in the present warrants a whole chapter in The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love. Here, I join my matchmaker friend Suzanne Oshima to talk about the importance of mindfulness...

‘How to Lose Your Virginity’ Documentary Screening with Paradigm Shift (Photo Diary)

Paradigm Shift NYC proudly presents “How to Lose Your Virginity” screening  and discussion with Therese Shechter, Filmmaker and Abiola Abrams, author of "The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self Love" at The Feminist District, The Tank. Hello...