Hos, Putas & Dragon Ladies: Our Sexuality Remixed

Current mood: touched


Tonight was the opening of the art exhibit that I organized and curated at the chashama gallery on West 44th Street. I am extremely proud of the 7 female artists that we assembled, and their very diverse works around the theme of remixing the sexuality and sexual representations of women of color. My sister damali abrams was one of the artists and her altar was perfect.
The next time you say, why doesn’t somebody… Remember that somebody is you. Create the work that you want to see or create safe spaces for other artists to do the same. We are all in this together.
The funny thing was that the most explicit work in the sexuality show was created by our oldest exhibiting artist. Talk about blowing your expectations and boxes.

a march 07 exhibit
women of color reclaiming their sexuality

at the chashama gallery in midtown manhattan

ART EXHIBIT STATEMENT
“The Goddess Factory uses movies and motivation to empower women emotionally, politically and sexually. Each of these tenets is equally important to empowerment. It’s a holistic approach. You can’t feel completely empowered politically if you are not empowered sexually. You can’t own yourself sexually or emotionally, if you don’t own your political self.

Corporations are trying to own & market our sexuality. It’s being bought, sold and traded on the open market. It is vital not only to criticize but to offer an alternative voice to those seeking this kind of content. Clearly this is challenging with so many negative and exploitive images dominating popular culture.

A Memory, a Monologue, a Rant, and a PrayerWe work with V-Day to stop violence against women and girls. A central part of this initiative is being clear that sex is not wrong or bad. The results of irresponsible sexuality and representations include teen pregnancy and growing rates of HIV. However, we need to be clear that there is still a healthy place for erotic joy in communities that that have been viewed consistently as over-sexualized.

The sexual representations are damaging, not sex. People have a vested interested in owning and controlling our sexuality and we will no longer allow them to do so.”
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AFRODITE SUPERSTAR (Experimental Comedy Featurette) 2007, is a feminist empowerment erotica film that Abiola Abrams directed under the name Venus Hottentot. The sexual scenes were directed by Candida Royalle, the executive producer of the film. The film has been endorsed by Essence Magazine, The Village Voice, and the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists, Feminists for Free Expression. Afrodite Superstar premiered at the New School for Social Research and was featured in the art exhibit Hos, Putas and Dragon Ladies: Our Sexuality Remixed at the Chashama Gallery in NYC.

The objective of the film is reclaiming the sexual voice and expression of women of color. Abiola joins Larry Clark, Matthew Barney, John Cameron Mitchell, Michael Winterbottom, Gore Vidal (Destricted, Shortbus, 9 Songs, Caligula) as filmmakers seeking to make intelligent mainstream work with explicit sexual content. Abiola has called it a sex education film for the hip hop generation. Others have called it an African American Red Shoes Diaries. Afrodite Superstar has been nominated for 7 2007 AVN Awards including Best Director, Best Musical Score, and Best Screenplay.

The Story: The plot of Afrodite Superstar centers around Afrodite, a young Beverly Hills socialite confused by the media images of what is sexy and what is “hot”. She tries everything from donning a blonde wig to blue contacts in an effort to be what the magazines and videos show as beautiful. No one is what they seem to be in this strange, new fairytale world, with the gun-slinging “gangsta” rapper having a degree from Yale and her “stock” plummeting by the day. Hopefully, Afrodite can find strength without losing herself as the experimental film consciously parodies some of the recent celebrity antics from wardrobe malfunctions, keeping it “real” music videos to sex tapes. Often, there is no stronger way to educate than to hold up a comedic mirror.
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Babeland Q&A with the Director of Afrodite Superstar


As a feminist and university graduate, why did you do this film?

I am an independent filmmaker. I wanted to create an intelligent and non-pornographic, non-exploitive film to raise sexual self-esteem that features characters of color and would be uplifting instead of degrading. Like most filmmakers such as Spike Lee, Woody Allen and Martin Scorsese, most of my work explores similar themes over and over again. All of my work explores the concept of identity, of being a young woman of color, and trying to be more than we are. This film just explores it with issues of sensuality and beauty. Previous works explore self-worth with mental health and other themes.

Like the bestselling author Zane, I feel that it is important for us to open this sexual conversationDear G-Spot: Straight Talk About Sex and Love in communities of color, where our silence literally equals death as women of color continue to be the fastest growing group diagnosed with HIV and AIDS. I wanted to create something intelligent, sexy and entertaining by women for women. This was a challenge that as an artist, scholar and activist I wanted to conquer. It grew directly out of my healing Goddess Power workshops with victims of multiple abuses including incest who had lost a sense of their sexual selves.

Q: How did you choose your stage name?

Abiola: I chose the name Venus Hottentot in salute Sarah Saartjie Baartman also known as The Hottentot Venus, a South African woman who was kidnapped and sexually exploited in the 19th century. My attempt is to reclaim her sexual voice, and the voice of all of us. Women of color are over-sexualized in our society. Our bodies are everywhere, but our voices are absent. I made this film to present our voice in this arena.




Q: Any thoughts on your casting process?

Abiola: Physical image after acting ability definitely came into play in my lengthy casting process. All of the black women are different shades of dark brown. That is very rare—if you look at our music videos, only black women or women of color who approximate the look of Caucasians are seen as beautiful. It was key for me to show natural African hair as beautiful.

In terms of casting, the film co-stars Mr. Marcus. The funny thing is that I am not a porn consumer so (fortunately or unfortunately) I had never ever heard of him before. The same goes for India, who is now a rapper. It was fantastic for me, as a director, to give them opportunities and hold them up to standards that people may not have thought they were capable of.

I discovered Simone Valentino at a university symposium on sexual media and Justin Long through his agent. Trina Asidieu, the non-sexual talent, is a great discovery as well. They were all intelligent, supportive, dedicated and hard working– studying their lines, going to acting classes, and being committed. I am extremely proud of them. They did a great job for non-actors.

Q: What was your film process?

Abiola: Our film process was writing, re-writing and revising a script, casting and extensive rehearsals, and original music production. In rehearsals, I basically gave each of the actors mini acting lessons. It was also key to me that people stay on book. For the most part, no improvisation was permitted, except during the sex scenes of course.

Q: Do you have any regrets?

Abiola: I feel that I fell short in my quest to portray women of different body types because of the talent available to me. Several people have asked why I chose not to cover the stretch marks on my main character Simone Valentino, who is otherwise a perfect beauty. Real women have stretch marks and we are beautiful because of them, not in spite of them. Our bodies tell the story of our journeys. I also tried to cast women with only real body parts including breasts, although I do respect women’s rights to do whatever they wish to their own bodies.

In addition, the film was more explicit that I would have preferred because of the financial obligations of being a corporate artist. There was also much more to the story which was devastating to cut, but ultimately, with a low budget and short shooting schedule, my producer Natasha Cortes had to focus on our deliverables, which was to make sure that the sex scenes were in the can. Overall though, I am proud of having the guts to make this work. There are many people who call themselves artists, but they are not willing to risk falling or failing. True artists operate on the edge. I hope to inspire discussion about sexual representation, and then move on to other topics and themes.

Q: How did you hook up with Candida Royalle?

How to Tell a Naked Man What to DoAbiola: I found Candida Royalle and Femme Productions through her website where she specified that she was looking to give opportunities to young female filmmakers. Although I had never considered shooting a sexual film before it was a great opportunity. People can’t conceive of it but I pitched it as a regular movie where the sex is real, and wrote a short script. Although I’ve made other narrative films before, she is the first person to trust me with a larger budget. I approached the work as I did any other—a safe set with a polished and sophisticated crew of mostly women. It was great working with her because sexuality is not my principal field as an artist or activist. This is my one foray into this work, and I couldn’t have had a better guide.

Q: What’s the difference between pornography and erotica?
 
Abiola: Pornography signifies exploitation. Our film is a very positive sexy enterprise made by women for women with a strong message. Call it whatever you want, just see it and tell your friends about it. People who come to AfroDite Superstar seeking pornography will be disappointed. Let’s not talk about terminology. Let’s talk about why women of color are the fastest growing group of people dying of AIDS and HIV. This war has many fronts. We need preachers, abstinence activists, and artists. Female genital circumcision is done to remove pleasure so that women feel powerless. So is silencing women’s sexual voices and exploiting and owning our bodies.




Q: That sounds great—so why direct the film anonymously?
Abiola: It’s very hip hop to have a tag or pseudonym, and I didn’t want this work to conflict with anything else I was doing. I chose the name Venus Hottentot to commemorate the life of a forgotten South African woman who was sexually exploited in Europe in the nineteenth century. I made the film to empower women. That’s why I have chosen to come out now as a part of a motivational movement called Dare to Be a B.A.D. Girl – Beautiful and Daring. I have an amazing fan base, and I want to be honest with them. If I am telling them to be B.A.D. – beautiful and daring, I have to dare to do the same.




Watch clips and read more about the erotica film Afrodite Superstar or Women of Color and Sexuality Art Exhibit..

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