- Break the routine. When it’s new it’s hot because of the unknown factor. A few years in, you both– or all- know what works.
- Change the game. If you always aim for the bed, pull your partner into the kitchen. Or the hallway, depending on where you live. If you get evicted — don’t blame me!!
- Take him to a sex shop or depending on where you live go to a sexy club- or a strip club. You don’t have to partake if that’s not your thing, but ask your partner who’s hot? What does he enjoy?
- Talk about the people there then go home and make love to each other. It’s unrealistic that you dude or lady will NEVER be attracted to anyone else.
- Couples spend alot of time in bed stressing over the woman’s orgasm. SLooooowwww down. Calm down. The journey is the destination.
- Homework: Look at the clock. Test yourselves. You have to figure out how to amuse each other for the next 2 hours with no penetration.
- Talk dirty to me baby. Tell your partner exactly what to do, where to touch you, how it tastes, and then how it feels.
- Don’t worry about looking cute during sex. It’s not a photo shoot, it’s not a sex tape, it’s sex.
- Let loose, get sweaty, don’t worry about anything but the moment.
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