Gilbere Forte & His 87 Dreams Gets the Abiola Interview

  Gilbere Forte, hip hop artist, cutie pie and pop singer, came to hang out with us in the Passionista Playhouse on the last episode of Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating and Drama. We talked about music, love and 87 Dreams. Check it out! And come play with us on Shovio.com Wednesdays 10-11pm EST…

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Karen Owen & Slut Shaming on Jezebel + Black Women & Representation

Writer, lobbyist and feminist activist Megan Carpentier asked for my thoughts on F*cking While Feminist, Karen Owen, the Powerpoint superstar from Duke University, and general slut shaming culture for a Jezebel collaborative blog.  This was a timely request as earlier in the week I felt “slut shamed” by one of my twitter followers. I’m not…

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It Gets Better: Message to Gay Teens About Bullying (VIDEO)

  My buddy Nando Rodriguez, fab dating blogger, sent out a Call to Action, asking those who care for participation in the It Gets Better Anti-Bullying Campaign. We’ve all been aware of the increased attention lately on the bullying of gay teens and LGBT youth due a spate of suicides. One of the more high…

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Kiss & Tell Live Reading Series October 19th Lineup Revealed

Yay! We’re back. Abiola’s Kiss & Tell Live Revue – Tuesday October 19th 7-10pm join us at Madame X in NYC for fun, inspiration and scandalosity! We’ll be celebrating Jamilah Creekmur’s new memoir Raised By The Mistress, written with bestselling author Aliya S. King. Fun readings, $5 champagne cocktails, and NYC’s sexiest FREE event. Esteemed…

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Abiola on Love, Singles, Dating #18: Comedians, Mudslides & Madness (VIDEO)

 Happy Birthday Kyle and Sherri… Pure unadulterated comedy!  (VIDEO BELOW)This episode was insanely funny. Off the wall comedy with Paul Case, co-producer of The Miss Fag Hag Awards and comic Kyle B Comedy. Tech blogger Sherri L. Smith was also in the house. We celebrate Kyle’s almost birthday with a song from Chelsea Grant, mini cupcakes, and…

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Long Distance Relationships: LuvEm Or Leave Em Advice Series (VIDEO)

  Long distance love? Can it work? Can it last? That’s this week’s LuvEm or Leave Em love, sex, dating advice question. Long distance relationships have additional issues to those that plague any relationship, like additional trust concerns. So does absence make the heart go farther or does absence make the heart forget. Here are…

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Fashion Week Special Report: FSL Cosmetics & B Artise NYFW (VIDEO)

FSL Cosmetics and B. Artise/ Born Again Vintage presented one of the most fun events of New York Fashion Week. The party and show were held at Honey in NYC. Check out my special report of Kim Riley’s inaugural beauty fashionista affair for her eco-friendly cosmetics line; Video produced by Kristal Mosley for iCreateTV and…

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