Easy Sauteed Asparagus Recipe: Cooking for Mom (VIDEO)

I was pretty sure that I hated asparagus until a couple of months ago. Then on my mom’s birthday I found out an hour before dinner that I was cooking. I hit my new organic supermarket to find food that my whole family could eat. Half of my family is vegetarian, and the other half…

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Should I Try To Get My Ex Back? Luvem Or Leave Em Love Advice (VIDEO)

Love, Sex, Dating Advice: Getting back together with your ex?   Hey Rockstars, Every other week Tina Tobin from LuvEm Or Leave Em assigns a relationship advice question. This week: Dear Abiola, Should I Try To Get Back Together With My Ex? Yikes! Your ex is your ex for a reason, right? You don’t eat…

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Sexy Halloween Madness Episode: Abiola on Love Sex Dating #21 (VIDEO)

Happy Halloween Episode! Scandalously Dirty Video… Hey Rockstars! Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating and Drama, Sexy Episode 21. It’s our Happy Halloween episode! Abiola in Wonderland. NYC party promoter Big Ced, Off Broadway show team Anthony Castellano and Zelda Knapp, and sex blogger JACK FROM BROOKLYN with gross scatological stories PLUS Kristal the Texas…

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When Do I Take Down My Online Dating Profile? (VIDEO)

This week my LuvEmOrLeaveEm.com love relationship advice question:  Dear Abiola, I met someone amazing online and we’ve been dating. We really like each other and yes we have sex. When do I take down my online dating profile from the dating site? This seems to be about cyber love but you’re really asking, “How do…

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Abiola on Love, Singles, Dating: Advice from Your Gay Best Friend (VIDEO)

Episode 20 – Advice from Your Gay Best Friend + Minds of Men FIVE OUT OF FIVE STARS, ★★★★★ GUESTS: Author Terrance Dean and Filmmaker Samad Davis  Hilarious Love, Sex and Dating Advice! Bestselling author Terrance Dean talks about his new book Straight Advice from Your Gay Best Friend and filmmaker Samad Davis talks about…

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Sexy Salmon Recipe Cooking: Romantic Brown Sugar Glaze (VIDEO)

Cooking Sexy Salmon? Um, how can salmon be sexy, Abiola? Make it with Brown Sugar Glaze, that’s how. Plus if you’re feeling frisky you can make it for someone you enjoy… In this “Romantic Cooking 101″ segment The Get Em Girls share their recipe for brown sugar glaze salmon. This is SO delicious and salmon…

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The Beauty Myth: Plastic Surgery with Michael Beach (VIDEO)

America the Beautiful: A Documentary About The Beauty Myth   Actor Michael Beach is the co-producer of America the Beautiful, a film that attempts to dissect the beauty myth and current cultural obsession with faux perfection and plastic surgery. We sat down in New York City to talk about beauty and self-love. Watch the video…

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Gilbere Forte & His 87 Dreams Gets the Abiola Interview

  Gilbere Forte, hip hop artist, cutie pie and pop singer, came to hang out with us in the Passionista Playhouse on the last episode of Abiola on LSD: Love, Sex, Dating and Drama. We talked about music, love and 87 Dreams. Check it out! And come play with us on Shovio.com Wednesdays 10-11pm EST…

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Karen Owen & Slut Shaming on Jezebel + Black Women & Representation

Writer, lobbyist and feminist activist Megan Carpentier asked for my thoughts on F*cking While Feminist, Karen Owen, the Powerpoint superstar from Duke University, and general slut shaming culture for a Jezebel collaborative blog.  This was a timely request as earlier in the week I felt “slut shamed” by one of my twitter followers. I’m not…

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It Gets Better: Message to Gay Teens About Bullying (VIDEO)

  My buddy Nando Rodriguez, fab dating blogger, sent out a Call to Action, asking those who care for participation in the It Gets Better Anti-Bullying Campaign. We’ve all been aware of the increased attention lately on the bullying of gay teens and LGBT youth due a spate of suicides. One of the more high…

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